Monday, May 17, 2010

Lots of little things.

We've had a nice, relaxing week and weekend, and don't have much to update this week. It's Brad's last week with his students, so we're looking forward to having him home with us very soon. We're also looking forward to spending next weekend in Carrollton for my best friend, Amber's, sister's baby shower. Although the shower will be fun, we're mostly looking forward to spending time with our best friends. It's so nice to be back in Carrollton. Amber and I were co-workers many moons ago, and Jason and Brad quickly became best buds. Amber and I have a blast together and when you throw Emma and their son, Seth, into the mix, we just love being together!

Brad spent most of the day Saturday doing a few outdoor projects. He drained, cleaned out, and refilled our pond. He also hung the swing that my parents got Emma for Easter. She LOVES to swing!!

The finished product.


One happy girl!


Here's a project I've been working on. I broke down and bought a Topsy Turvy hanging tomato planter. I think it looks pretty happy so far. Hoping for tons of tomatoes!


So I thought I'd just use this post to tell you a little bit about what Emma's up to lately. It's mostly for myself and for Emma to be able to look back and remember. She changes SO much SO fast that it just blows my mind. It's hard to think that just a couple of months ago she was not crawling, not pulling up. She's growing up too fast for me!

Emma's sleeping through the night. She goes to sleep between 8:30 and 9:00 and wakes up at 6:15 AM to eat and then is back down until around 8:00-8:30. It's SO nice!

She naps 2-3 times a day. She goes down for her first nap 1 hour and 15 minutes after she wakes up in the morning, and then her second nap starts 2 hours after she wakes up from her first. If, for some reason, she wakes up early or takes short naps (they vary in length from 45 minutes to 2.5 hours!) she will take a 3rd nap, which is usually only around 30 minutes but is ESSENTIAL to making it through the evening.

She is pulling up on EVERYTHING! She is also starting to cruise. She has even started to stand on her own for a few seconds!!

I STILL cannot eat chocolate. She's always had a sensitivity of some sort to my breastmilk whenever I eat chocolate. She stays up half the night screaming. Not sure exactly why, but we've tried it again every few months and she STILL has issues.

She says "more" consistently when she's eating and her tray is empty.

She loves finger foods, but is back to letting us spoon-feed her some healthy foods. She doesn't like meat very much, but will taste just about anything.

Her favorite finger foods are American cheese, cheerios, yogurt melts, and GOLDFISH!

Her favorite "spoon foods" are YOGURT, sweet potato, pears, avocado, and anything off of our plates (banana pudding, Italian ice from Rita's, anything she's not 'supposed' to have).

She still refuses juice of any kind, but is a sweet tea girl!

She wears 12 month clothes, though anything (like onesies) that have to snap at the crotch or include shorts, have to be 18 months (cloth diapers cause big booties!).

She's STILL swaddled to sleep. We've recently tried to unswaddle that notorious one arm again and it was a HUGE fail. Still waiting for her to let us know she doesn't need it anymore. I promise, she won't be swaddled in preschool!

She LOVES Lucy and our cats. If she's eating and one walks into the room she must immediately stop eating to stare and smile at them until they leave.

She makes the funniest throat clearing sound before she gets in trouble. She does it mainly when she's really close to grabbing one of the animals, but also when she's about to get into something she's not supposed to. SO funny!

She thinks it's hysterical when Lucy sneezes or hacks. She BELLYLAUGHS!

She hates having her diaper changed/holding still on the changing table, and screams through most changes. You'd think that she'd get the picture that it's not optional, but she just doesn't care. She's a little hard-headed. Ok, a lot.

She LOVES her Daddy. She busts into a huge grin when he gets home from work.

She's a big snuggle bug. She likes to give hugs when she wakes up from naps and has recently started to bury her head in my shoulder just to be sweet. I eat up every second of it.

She is still nursing really well, though for shorter amounts of time. A lot of people have asked when I plan to wean her. It's not likely to be any time soon. I'm going to wait until we're both ready. My initial plan was to nurse for one year. We'll see.

She loves water! We've recently set up her baby pool and she loves to splash around. She also still loves her bath and fusses when she has to get out.

She still is my little toothless wonder. She has days where she drools and we think "she's GOT to be teething!" but no teeth yet!

She's got her Daddy's gorgeous green eyes. They go back and forth between looking green and hazel.

She looks a LOT like her Daddy when you compare her to his baby pictures. She also looks a LOT like ME when you compare her to MY baby pictures. It's uncanny that she doesn't favor one of us more than the other, but just about everyone agrees that she's a perfect mix of the 2.

She has a surprise. Can you see it??


The strange look on her face is because she can't stand the feeling of grass. She takes after her mama. Do you see her surprise? Look closer.


She held very still and let mama paint her toenails! Is that not just the cutest thing you've ever seen?? I think it is. And that's what matters!


Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Tucker Day and Mother's Day

We had SUCH a fun weekend! We met a good friend of mine and her little boy, Jack, for the Tucker Day parade. Tucker Day is a fairly small little celebration with a parade and lots of arts and crafts booths, live music, and food. We got there in time for the parade for the first time ever! Emma had a blast. She waited patiently and watched the entire parade without making a peep - and it was LONG. She particularly liked the fire truck and the Tucker High marching band. Jack watched the parade from Brad's shoulders which I think both of them enjoyed :) I also found a really great lady that makes handmade jumpers/dresses and I bought Emma a dress for her first birthday party! Can't believe she's almost one......

Me, Mary, Jack, and Emma


Ready for the festivities!


Waiting......very patiently!


We ended the day with dinner at Brad's parents house for Mother's Day. It was a great little celebration and Emma really enjoyed eating meatloaf, stuffed zucchini, and SWEET TEA! Have I mentioned that we have a little southern girl on our hands? The child will NOT drink juice of any kind - she gags and heaves. She drinks water like it's going out of style and has now added tea to her list of favorite things. She's a sucker for a straw with Chick-Fil-A tea at the other end ;) Wonder where she gets that from??

The following day was Mother's Day. I told Brad that I just wanted a relaxing day at home to enjoy my little family. And that's exactly what we did. Brad let me sleep extra late and then, after Emma woke up from her morning nap, we went to this really cool International Farmers Market just down the street that we've been meaning to go to. We went home and I took a nice long shower and then met my mom for a little shopping. When we got back, Brad and Emma gave me my gift - a beautiful picture frame that says "Our Family" on it. He is also having a ring of mine fixed, which has been on my to-do list forever. We picked up takeout from Provino's for dinner and headed to my parents' house so that my mom could play with her girl while we ate. It was a nice, relaxing first Mother's Day. I look forward to many more to come!


Monday, May 3, 2010

Fun Times!

We had a great weekend, as you could see by some of the pictures in the last post. Here are a few more that I just took off of my camera. I bought Emma a "splash pad" last summer when it was on clearance and couldn't wait to pull it out this year! She LOVED it! We only played for about 5 minutes because it was really sunny outside and the hose water was cold, but fun was had by all. This was Emma's first time in a bathing suit! Is it not the cutest thing you've ever seen?? Her Grammy bought it for her - we think she did good.




This weekend I also got Brad to put together this stroller that his mom got her for Christmas. She's at the point right now where she loves to walk and hold onto your fingers. She thinks she's grown. She honestly thinks that she can take off sometimes - she pushes away from you like she can just go!
Here she is acting like she's a grown up - one handed!


Saturday, May 1, 2010

10 Months Old

Wow! Only 2 months until Emma's first birthday. Where did the time go? I can honestly say that it feels like yesterday that we were bringing her home from the hospital. The time has flown by way too fast. We've lived every single minute to the fullest, and tried to squeeze every ounce of fun and excitement and love and snuggles out of every second of it. It's still too fast. I'd like to freeze her at this exact moment. She's so perfect. She's doing SO many new things.....

She's pulling up on anything and everything she can find.
She's chasing the dogs and cats and has even gotten her hands on them a few times!
She says "mah" for "more" when she's eating and her tray is empty.
She doesn't really want to have much to do with food on a spoon - she'd rather feed herself!
She's got a hot temper and knows how to arch her back and scream already.....we're in for it.
She figured out just 2 days ago how to hold her own sippy cup. I can count on one hand the amount of times she's had a bottle, so she's never had much to practice with!


She's got some serious stranger anxiety, but warms up fast to people.
She's got the best laugh in the whole world.
She smiles literally almost all day long.
She's the happiest baby I've ever seen - and she makes us just as happy!

We've had a great week. We had our friends Rachel and Juan and their precious baby, Juliette, over for a cookout on Thursday. If you'll remember, she's Emma's little friend that is just 2 weeks younger. We love spending time with them! We hope that Emma and Juli grow up to be great friends. It would be so neat to have a friend that's known her for her whole life. In fact, Rachel and I would meet for ice cream and coffee when we were pregnant, so they've known each other even longer!

Pretty Juliette!


Flying babies!! Emma was trying to hold Juli's hand!


Today we packed up and went to Aunt Claire's for the day. We got to spend some time with my Grandpa (Emma's Great-Grandpa) in Thomson, GA. We had a blast! Claire took us on a ride on their gas-powered golf cart. Emma rode it once before when she was about 4 months old. She fell asleep as soon as we got on it then, and she did the same this time! She was well overdue for a nap, so she took one!


I LOVE this picture! Guess what she was so enthralled with??

Their dog, Chip! She LOVES dogs!


This is just a tiny part of their property - we drove all over through the pasture and around lots of ponds.


Here we go!


All tuckered out.


Emma figured out how to get her OWN Cheerios from her snack holder! Such a big girl. She looks JUST like her Daddy here - mouth open, hand in the snacks, watching her video. Don't tell him I said that!


Brad only has 3 more weeks of school until summer break and we can't wait! We're planning some short overnight trips to visit Amber and Jason and Seth in Carrollton and we're really looking forward to it!


Monday, April 19, 2010

New Parlor Tricks

Well, there it is! She's pulling up! She started pulling up on Brad and I about a week or so ago. As soon as she figured out that she could do it once, she's unstoppable! We had to drop her crib mattress down this weekend. We're still swaddling, which is a long story. Suffice it to say, she has had horrible allergies/pollen issues and hadn't been sleeping well for a few nights and so we re-swaddled. She's sleeping through the night again, so we're leaving her be for a few days. We'll start to unswaddle again soon. Anyway, she's rarely ever in the crib unswaddled, which is probably why it's taken her this long to pull up. We only put her in there when we're doing something in her room, washing hands after changing a diaper, or when mommy needs a minute to start laundry or something. It feels great to say that every single thing that this child has done that is new, I've seen it the first time. Every new sound she makes, funny face she makes, new milestone she hits. I was right there when she pulled up on her crib the first time. I was a proud mommy! Here's the video proof! This wasn't the first time, but one of the first.

Emma Pulling Up on Crib from Susan Gilchrist on Vimeo.


Did I mention that she's sleeping through the night? I'm not sure if I have mentioned that in previous posts, so I thought I'd brag a little. She goes down for bed between 8:00-9:00 and usually gets up around 6:15 to nurse and then back down until 7:30-8:30 or so. It's awesome. It's incredible. It's a miracle. How did it happen after 7-8 months of waking up anywhere from 2-4+ times a night?? Well, that's an embarassing story involving my failure as a mother.

I have mentioned before that we were going to do the "Ferber Sleep Method" which involves letting her cry or fuss for specific amounts of time before going in to check on her, never getting her out of the crib, and gradually increasing the time inbetween checks. It was going well and we had gotten down to 1 feeding. Then we had a set back or 2 and she was back to 4 times a night up and wide awake. It was a nightmare and I knew that we had to stop it. If we didn't, we were not only harming ourselves because of a lack of sleep, but harming her as well. It's our job as parents to teach her what night time's supposed to be like, and waking up 4 times to eat just ain't it! So we started to "Ferber" again. It was working slowly. One night I woke up to her fussing around midnight. I turned the volume on the baby monitor all the way down and set my digital timer for 10 minutes (an old one from several years of classroom use, and not incredibly reliable). I fell asleep. I fully expected the timer to wake me up 10 minutes later, to go in and put the passy back in, and go back to bed. Only the timer never went off. It died. I woke up at 6:30 in the morning and Emma was just starting to stir. I felt like the worst mother in the history of the world. I still feel like that. I'll never forgive myself for it. I know that it was just accidental, but I feel like crap that I wasn't awake enough to know that the timer malfunctioned. Anyway, you get the point. She was in a good mood, though she was tired. She didn't seem to hold a grudge, but guess what?? She slept through the night from that point on. She occasionally has a night where she wakes up once but puts herself back to sleep within minutes. So there you have it. I'm a horrible mom, but my kid sleeps through the night. She's well-rested and I.....well, not so much. Brad and I are night owls and just can't seem to get to sleep before 11PM or midnight on any given night. SO I'm exhausted most of the time, but we're working on changing that habit.

So I bought Emma a ride-on/push behind toy for Easter because it won't be long before she's walking at this rate! She helped me put it together today and then enjoyed a little ride. She pretty quickly figured out how to use her feet to scoot it backwards. Now if we can only figure out the "forward" part! She looks so big to me on this thing! Pardon the fact that it's fuzzy - she doesn't hold still for long!

She's crawling everywhere now, and FAST! I've baby proofed some of the living room, which is where her toys are and where we spend a majority of the day. However, she can quickly make her way into the kitchen or down the hall, which is not good. We also have a very sharp fireplace which scares the hell out of me. I decided it was time to put together her SuperYard XT, which is pretty much a pen. There's almost no way to find a baby gate big enough to block off the area between our living room and kitchen, so this was our only option. I picked it up brand new, in the box, at a consignment sale a few months ago for less than half of the full price. It's so nice to have somewhere safe that I can put her and know that I can do some dishes and that she'll pretty much be in there when I get done! She doesn't mind it much yet either. I'm sure this will change!
Can you see her in there??


Here I am!

Tonight we went to dinner with a couple of my previous students and their moms. We've gotten to be good friends! We had a great time, but it makes me feel so old! I have known Caroline since she was 2 and she is now 14!! I used to babysit her and then was her 5th grade teacher! And Jack is now taller than I am! It's so nice to be able to keep in touch. They were all excited to see Emma and she was an angel - she even stayed in her high chair through the entire meal and didn't scream once!! I was so proud! Here she is just after we got home. You'd never know she had fallen asleep in the car on the way home!

I'll leave you with one last precious video. Emma LOVES my parents' dog, Bailey. She busts out her biggest gummy grin every time she sees him. Bailey LOVES bubbles! This is what happens whenever we blow bubbles around Bailey. Unfortunately, he eats a lot of soap for the sake of her precious laughter, but I don't think he minds. In fact, I'm pretty sure that he thinks it's all for him! I wish that Lucy wanted to play, because we would do this at home all the time. Unfortunately, Lucy's a wussy and is terrified of bubbles. Just don't even ask.....she's not the brightest crayon in the box. :)

Bubbles from Susan Gilchrist on Vimeo.





Sunday, April 11, 2010

Spring Break!!

I've been taking a little blogging break this week because we've been jet setting, as we rarely do these days. We started the week of Easter with Emma's first Easter Egg Hunt at my good friend, Mary's house. We had a great time! Emma picked up a few eggs and had to be coerced into putting them into the basket, but she figured out the plan quickly enough. The basket was one that I got from Target after last year's Easter season. It was so fun to see her using the basket that I had envisioned her with last year when I was pregnant and anticipating my sweet baby girl's first Easter.


Making noises with Daddy's hand - a past time.


It was SO nice to have Brad home for the week. I will admit it, I'm spoiled. He often lets me sleep in on weekends and gets up and feeds Emma. It's so nice that she can actually eat "food" now and I'm not always required to be in the picture for every single meal. Brad has also confessed that he loves feeding her. They really bond as he makes airplane noises, wipes her mouth with goofy motions and voices, and cheers when she's "all finished." Emma thinks her Daddy's crazy!

Easter Sunday was great. We went to mass at Holy Cross and then had a nice Easter dinner with my parents. We had a great meal with Brad's family the night before. Lots of great food and great family. Emma loved her Easter basket! I decided to do something a little different with her basket. Well, technically, it's a bucket. I found a woman on etsy.com that decorates and sells galvanized buckets. I had her make one for Emma with her name on it. It's bright pink with lime green polka dots. Each year, the Easter Bunny will fill the same bucket. I used a paint pen and wrote the date of her first Easter on the bottom of the bucket. I really want to make lots of traditions for Emma and keepsakes at the same time. I hope that she will enjoy the bucket for years in the future.

Emma LOVES her new doll that the Easter bunny brought her - can you tell?! He must have seen her talking to it at Toys R Us the previous week....


Pretty girl in her Easter dress. Hard to believe it was in our backyard....Brad cut the grass/weeds the next day!


We spent 2 nights in Carrollton with our best friends, Amber and Jason, and their precious little boy, Seth. We met in Carrollton when we were in school together and lived there for a year after I graduated and taught while Brad finished up his senior year. It holds lots of great memories for us, and is also where our best friends are. It was SO great to spend a few days with them, but has us all wishing we were closer to them. It is so nice out in the country and really makes you long for the peace and quiet and simpler life that just can't be found in the "big city."

Emma loves her Aunt Amber!!


Seth LOVED Emma and she loved him. He wasn't quite sure how to play with her though. There were lots of head rubs and shoulder pats! Precious.



We got to have a little playdate with a friend's new little girl, Ella. She is about 3 months old. Emma loved her!


It's hard to tell, but can you see that their feet are about the same size?? My girl's got TINY feet!


Emma enjoyed her first "big girl" bath at Amber and Jason's house. She usually gets in the tub with Mama, but loved her big girl bath thanks to a bathtub ring borrowed from a friend!


Emma slept SO great the first night. From 8:30-8:00. The next night, well....it was a nightmare. She realized pretty quickly that as soon as she cried we were going to jump up and get her because we didn't want her to wake the rest of the house up. She milked it for all it was worth. We were literally up once an hour, if not every half hour. It was worth it though. By the time we got home, we were missing it. I have a feeling we're going to spend some more time there this summer, though we haven't been invited yet. ;)

We came back from Carrollton on Brad's 28th birthday. He's an old man! We spent the day trying to recover from not sleeping the night before. We also went to dinner at Pappadeaux with his family. Emma decided that she had had enough of the "being a good girl" thing. She started arching her back in the high chair, stiffening up and screaming UGLY screams when her food wasn't coming fast enough. We're starting to work on this because Mama's NOT going to have a rude little girl! She eventually stopped once she heard "no ma'am" a few times and the food stopped coming.

We spent Friday morning at Yellow River Game ranch with Mary and Jack (from the egg hunt!). We had a great time, though they were packed, pollen was everywhere, and we had to park down the street and walk! Gorgeous weather that day.

The child hates her stroller. She made me get her out shortly after we got there. SO I carried her and pushed the stroller. I missed Brad :(


She LOVED the goats! She fed this one carrots.


She got so tired! Unfortunately, she's not as light as she once was and my back was screaming at me after we walked through the rest of the park and all the way to the car.


She's such a big girl these days. She's eating a good bit of table food. This week alone she's tried deviled eggs, pimento cheese sandwich, cucumber, tomato, mushrooms, bread, cake, chicken, turkey, ham......I'm sure there's more. She loves trying new things, though she mostly wants to feed them to herself. She likes it when things are "her idea." Hmm....wonder where she gets THAT from???

She told me "mmmmmm" over and over today for "more" when she was eating puffs. She's making LOTS more noises and has started to imitate! I knew she would, but am relieved to see it. She makes the "b" noise, "d" noise, and "m." She makes others throughout the day, but those are the most often heard ones.

She wears size 12 month clothes. There are a few 9 month outfits that still fit, but most of them are 12 month. I had to break down and buy a couple of pairs of skorts from Target to go over onesies this summer. They had to be big and stretchy enough to fit over her diapers, as most clothes aren't cut that big anymore. They were size 24 months. But hey, at least they fit!

She's crawling SO perfectly these days. She's not racing with it yet, but it's coming. She's gotten into dog food, remote controls, phones....you name it. We're starting to baby-proof as we go along.

We're starting to un-swaddle. It's about time, but she really wasn't ready for it before now. We've been leaving one arm out of the swaddle and it only took her one nap to get comfortable with that. She's been like that for 2 days now. In fact, yesterday she slept with both arms out and only her legs swaddled for both naps. She showed us last night that we were moving a bit too fast though, so as I type this, she's got one arm out. We'll take it at her pace and see how it goes. Sure will be nice not to have to man-handle her into a swaddle blanket before nap times by myself!

Brad heads back to work tomorrow and is dreading it. I've gotten a lot done this week in terms of housework, but still really need to find the time to get into her closet and clear out the stuff that's too small, which is most of it. I cleaned out her drawers today and filled a rubbermaid box. The closet will make box 3 so far, and that's only her clothing newborn-6 months. Think she has enough clothes?? ;)

Emma's had a hard time with the pollen these last 2 days. A little runny nose off and on and she's just generally fussy. She doesn't seem to have a cold. It's just some sneezing and we have to wipe her little nose 2-3 times a day. Hope the pollen calms down soon. It's been well over 1000 today. I hope that she doesn't end up with her Mama's horrible allergies. Time will tell.


Thursday, April 1, 2010

We have liftoff.

UPDATED!!!

Here are the videos, as promised! She's getting better by the minute!

Only in the south can you get a girl to crawl for some sweet tea! (She didn't really drink it, just loves to chew on the straw.)

Emma Crawling from Susan Gilchrist on Vimeo.



Emma in the Dog Food! from Susan Gilchrist on Vimeo.



Original Post:

So for quite some time now Emma's been moving and shaking. I can't leave her in a room unattended for more than 2 seconds without coming back and finding her across the room and into something. It's nearly impossible to change her diaper without a huge fight - her life's mission is to flip over onto her belly. If you've ever tried to cloth diaper a baby upside down, you know how tough it is. She's DEFINITELY learning the meaning of the word "no" right now, but it's tough to have a huge fight everytime she sees the changing table :( She rolls, scoots, pulls herself with her hands, gets up on her hands and knees and scoots backwards.....you name it, she does it. Well, today my big girl did it. She crawled! When I say she crawled, I mean she moved her hands one at a time and her knees one at a time. She's NEVER done that before! She showed off for all of the ladies at my mom's office and performed perfectly each time, like she'd been doing it forever! I hesitate to tell you what she was crawling FOR......well, she's a southern girl, so I'll tell ya. Chick-Fil-A sweet tea. And yes, I let her try it when she got it. Technically, she chewed the straw and never even got to taste the tea, but the straw was worth crawling for over and over again! I can't wait for her Daddy to get home and see her! I'll make sure to get some video later and post it as soon as I can. I'm so proud!! :)